I'm actually formerly curious, I was lucky enough to suck a buddy's cock a few years ago while he looked at pictures of my wife.
I watch a lot of gay and bi porn, especially bears,(my buddy was very hairy) and I notice that when a guy is fucking another face up, the guy on top almost never plays with the other guy's cock. If I was getting fucked in the ass, I would really want him to stroke and pump my cock.

My question is: Why don't they?

If the guy on top thinks of himself as being a male (the fuckor) and the guy on the bottom as a female (the fuckee), well females don't have dicks to play with.

A long time ago when I first got into anal
I would get hard "sometimes" while I was getting it.
I dont really get that way anymore so the other guys attention on my cock is less important than the feeling he is getting on his!
I have seen lots of Vids where the man getting it does not get hard even with some kind of stimulation. Plus when a guy is on his back usually the top guy has his hands on the bed..park bench..truck bed...etc...LOL!

Just my own observation?

BiBob

I'm an anal virgin .... well other than dildos that is ... lol
but I think that is a good observation

I guess it depends on who the top guy is. I know I have met guys who like to hold onto my little cock and balls while pounding my hole. I appreciate the attention but my mind is on the stimulation I am receiving in my hole. Some top guys just want to get on top and drive and figure the bottom guy is just interested in getting his hole stuffed.

Because They Are " SELFISH ".

There.
I Said It.
Because No One Else Would.

Alot Of Men Are Like That.
Esp. The Ones Who Think That They Are Totally Str8.
LMAO / SMDH...

I have to say softbttmguy is correct, tops want to play w/, lick (a sweet clean ass) then pound it deep til they explode n that either gives the bttm an Orgasm or pleases him his asspussy was so good wet n tight it cause the top to explode. Why can't we post vids of us fucking or getting fucked to enjoy when other similar sites post them, that's not fair at all. Or post sucking n swallowing a big cock full of cum, love seeing these vids, love a hot cock swallowing bttm n submissive to getting pounded in bed.

The only time I was fucked face-up, he didn't need to touch my cock because I was cumming all over by the second stroke. He was hitting me just right.

I really don't think there is a right or wrong, although I appreciate the pat on the back, nutxcock. It really depends on the two (or more) guys who are playing. Pete, if you like your cock touched then by all means tell the top guy thats what you like. It doesn't matter to me if the top guy touches me as long as he provides the stimulation I am seeking, and that is working my hole good. Den2u, I love that when it happens, and it happens alot. I prefer face to face and the top giving me a good pounding. Nothing crazy just something steady that can make my little cock move back and forth, that is usually when I know I am going to experience a good orgasm, which you know only tights the hole for the top ;) Have fun no matter how you do it fellows.

Some do

Some do