| By rochbimwm on Saturday, August 31, 2013 - 12:50 pm: | 
I have a friend, he is single and gay, I'm married and bi. We get together about once a week and I'm usually the one taking care of him which is okay with me. I'll give him oral and will swallow and I'll also bottom. However, after he gets off, there is no closeness, kissing or cuddling afterwards. This has been typical with most of the guys I've been with. I'm certainly not repulsive or have bad breath (maybe cum breath). Any thoughts?
| By lionheart on Saturday, August 31, 2013 - 1:17 pm: | 
I know this sounds crazy but I'd rather suck a dick than kiss a guy  
... lol
| By lonelypole on Thursday, September 5, 2013 - 10:11 am: | 
With me, cuddling & kissing are part of love or physical intimacy. I have sex with guys because I enjoy sucking cock & getting fucked. It's jus that - sex!
| By dlmaturetop on Thursday, September 5, 2013 - 2:37 pm: | 
It depends on the entire situation... I never kissed every woman I fucked either...
| By nutxcock4u on Thursday, September 12, 2013 - 2:39 am: | 
I think Lonelypole explained it best, guys don't want intimatcy when fucking most guys -that cuddling n kissing (male or female U have those special feelings for-the m2m sex is fu_king n releasing ).
| By patheticperson on Thursday, September 12, 2013 - 3:45 pm: | 
If there is real love and attraction towards that person is there the above said would be done.
| By bttmbibiker on Sunday, September 22, 2013 - 4:43 am: | 
Cause its gay.......lol 
I will take a cock in my mouth or in my ass, but just cant do a another dudes tounge in my mouth unless its a hot cd or tg
| By bioap69 on Monday, October 14, 2013 - 9:29 am: | 
Before cumming when the libido is at it's height I love to kiss and cuddle but once i'v cum the feeling of intimacy has gone, as I don't fancy men only their cock, but it's different with a woman
| By bibob on Tuesday, October 15, 2013 - 9:44 am: | 
I feel there are a couple of factors. 
Society as a whole frowns on same sex and many 
feel that sex and intamcy is wrong although the libido takes over. Most of us were raised that kissing was for a man and woman. 
"You may kiss the bride". 
 
In my own experiences like Bioap69 said as the sexual feeling hetightens so does the anything goes feeling. My first kiss with another guy was before any sexual act took place, we both knew our cocks would end up in each others mouths or butts so the kiss was like foreplay and I enjoyed it...so did my cock. 
 
After the sex itself there was that feeling of remorse, not so much for the sex it self but for the slight show of affection...something that is supposed to be shared by a man and woman. 
 
I started young and the sexual acts themselves are very natural to me. The kissing is however something that I still find a bit uneasy about. 
 
BiBob