Okay..so when I did my first dude, I wanted to be super clean and I did an enema 3 hours before he came over, right? so after fuck #2, after I layed there, with his cum oozing out, I had a light gas bubble, and gently released it...part way, until I felt liquid...thinking it was his cum again, I took the white hotel towel and wiped again, this time looking at it. Low and behold, I realized it was some clear fluid mixed with "the runs"-liquid fecal matter. And of course, I smelled it to be sure and yes, it was fecal matter. Luckily, he didn't notice me wiping or smelling as he had started to drift off to sleep...I had to go and wash 3 times and put scented lotion on my ass to rid of the funk and embarassment.

Is this common no matter how much in advance you do an enema before anal sex? any remedies? (I had voided my bowels right before doing the enema, so I didn't have to go do #2)

I always do an enema within 30 mins of getting fucked and i never have a problem. 3 hrs may have been too long in advance.

I tried doing it the night before and had discharge up until an hour before we met, and that ws only after taking 3 Omodium AD's