Why is it so hard for a married guy looking for my first time. Well must be me, looking for that right person who is not pushy and don't mind taking it slow, I need a person I can relax with, chat and explore this side of life.

SLOW AND CAREFUL! MAKE A FRIEND FIRST: YOU KNOW, SOMEONE YOU MEET YOU KNOW HAS BI-INTERESTS: THEN BECOME FRIENDS BEFORE BEING FRIENDLY WITH THEM ENOUGH TO TRUST THEM, THEN GO FROM THERE. SLOW , DELIBERATE AND STAY/PLAY SAFE!!!!!!!!!!!

GOOD LUCK