I'm 60 and overweight and don't have the courage to "break the ice". I know I'll probably never have a real cock in my ass. My question to those who have is: What is the most realistic way to fuck yourself in the butt? What toy or object should I use? I have used a John Holmes realistic and love it but I want to have the feeling as close as possible. What do you say?

I have a 8" jelly dong with a suctioin cup base that will give you lots of hands free fun. I really enjoy mine. If you were closer I dont mind a 60 year old overweight guy that wants to play.

You would be surprised at how many guys would be interested in fucking you, if you just break the ice. I am short fat and bald, with a small cock and I have been fucked. I do have a tapered butt plug that gets thicker as you take more of it. It feels incredible and definately gets you ready for the real thing. Good luck in your quest.

Try a Sybian. It is used by women but men can use it also. Just google sybian and check it out. Anyway that is hands free gives you a lot more pleasure. Have fun. PS: give it a try with a buddy. You will be sorry you didn't do it earlier.

I agree with den - there are lots of guys that would probably love to take your cherry. See if there are any bath houses in your area that cater to gay men. You can go and just get a feel for the place - most are low key and you won't feel pressured. And some provide lube & condoms.