I'm married and love women. I have sucked a friend's cock once and loved it. I fantasize about a cock in my ass and one in my mouth. But, I have no desire to hug or kiss a man. I have tongued a woman's ass but I don't want to do that for a man. I guess I would be considered Bi. I don't feel confused or conflicted, I just wonder if there are others like me. Anyone?

Hello Vabiguy49.
I think "we are both in the same boat"
Like you, I would also like to have a dick in my mouth and another in the ass. but this is a fantasy that was not yet realized.
I also think there are certain things that are erotic with a woman but not with a man, like hug to kiss or lick his ass.
But these are feelings that everyone feels differently, so I do not criticize those who like to kiss, hug or licking ass.
I am happily married, have 56 years and have had experiences with men but was only mutual masturbation and mutual blowjob.
I also like, when I'm alone at home,to use wife's sexy lingerie and her toys for anal penetration and prostate stimulation, which gives me much pleasure.
For the above I think I can also be considered bi sexual.

There are millions. There are degrees of being bi. They run from just letting another guy suck your dick to tongue kissing, ass rimming hot anything goes sex. Many of us fill the middle ground. Whatever you do, enjoy whatever you do.

The friend I gave the blowjob to and I were talking about getting together more often. He lived close by and had mentioned that he wanted to try getting screwed in the ass. Unfortunately, I moved too far away for it to work out. The area I live in now is very small and I have no idea how to hook up without the family finding out. I would love a weekly session but I can't afford to be "outted". Oh well, its porn and jack off I guess.

I find that as I get older, my desires have grown more to wanting to see what its like to kiss and make out with a man, as well as sucking and getting fucked.

It is all good - both men and women.