Just wondering how you all meet other guys? Do you do it throught ads? Do you get out to bars and such? I know being bi and married it is tough. But damn I am tired of dead ends.

Thanks in advance for your replies.

usually on the net, adult bookstores, and sometimes the gay clubs.

when the weather is good i like to walk in the woods there are always guys looking to hook up. when the weather isn't good i like going to the bookstores.

mrbobm i'm in joliet area

I have had luck at nude beaches,alway gay or bi guys around.Mrbobm2001 is right.wooded areas where people hike,roadside parks and rest stops,be careful police like to check these places out also.In the past had a lot of luck in adult bookstore.Gay clubs are ok but not always safe.Seems like the best place today is the net.

I guess maybe I should check in to the bookstores. We have one here close to town. Do you guys just go in and look around? Maybe see a guy there and strike up a conversation with him?

I tried an ad once and it was really a flop. I think I wrote my ad out good, but it seemed like all the guys wanted to do was write emails and talk about sex. Nobody really seemed interested in meeting..and I wasn't pushy, was happy to just meet for a drink and chat.

I really appreciate all of you giving me something to go on here. I will keep checking back.

Where are you?

bibi57...I had the same experience in the past regarding an ad. Loads of replies resulting in endless emails with what they expect and want to do but no personal contact. I think most who reply are just looking for explicit emails to wank to.

I've had success using gay sites such as silverdaddies.com. On silverdaddies there are lots of married men looking, and the subscripton cost is very reasonable.

olderfriend I am in southern Illinois

kibris I think you are right. Most who reply to ads just want pictures and letter to jack to. Shame nobody is serious about hooking up real time.