If someone were to try anal for the first time, what position would you recommend?

For me, either on the knees and elbows or on the side in the spoon position.
But, as long as I get it, I don't care.

On the side.
That way you can control the amount that goes in.
Take a little at a time until you`re comfy...

Just remember, be safe, use lots of lube, relax and enjoy. It feels great.

i too am looking to try anal and was thinking of starting with a smaller cock

First time, I would suggest you on top so that you can control the penetration. My first time was doggie, but he had a pencil dick, so it didn't really matter. First time I had a "regular" sized cock, I was on my back, legs up. He rushed it a bit, but after a few minutes, I was liking it! Also was cool when he was ready to cum, he pulled out, tore the condom off, and sprayed me with his cum!

I would say laying flat face down him on top almost laying on top of you. You get penetration but if he is hung it is not all of it at once.

Doggie. You'll be experiencing feeling rather than sight. And, you'll love it.