I let a buddy see my dick in my old white spandex briefs. He noticed my bulge, but never reached to touch. Now I want to see if he lets me see his.

If he lets you see him like that it should be interpreted as an invitation to play.

Give him a better look and see if he shows interest. Maybe he's a bit shy.

I would have asked him if I could have lowered his briefs. I guess that's taking it to fast but you know.

I gave him another look, and he notices. I want to give him a bj. I want to pleasure him anyway he would want!!!!

If you live together or spend time in private alone walk around with no underwater or only a towel wrap and gaped open in the front. Take him to a nude beach. Tell him you want to suck him off.