My first time was with someone that did not take their time. They rushed and ripped me pretty bad. Is this common and what do u use to heal this anyone with any remedies please help.

Have you tried Preparation H? The next time you do this, use lots of lube and hold his cock so you can control how deep and somewhat how fast. Good luck!!

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Hi mate, Im fairly new to this too, and still a virgin in that area! but very willing to try, but i think if this happened to me, it would scare the hell out of me, and i prob wouldnt attempt it again! it sounds to me that your partner was either extremely inexperienced, or extremely inconsiderate, prob both! I give my wife anal sex often, and from this fully realize how gentle one needs to be to begin with, maybe you need to find a much more considerate partner, i have found older men are much more fun and better to be with, they have more sense and control than younger guys. Pls feel free to email me if you wish.

I'm also a virgin in that area but would love to try, but I also have the same fear or being rip, I've sucked cock and loved it if anyone can pass information to meI would be very grateful, what do you suggest kaddy

Personally, I enjoy it in the ass cuz i learned to relax and use lots of lube..... but if I notice the guys got a really big dick I do everything I can to make him believe that Im the worlds best cocksucker and leave it at that

Lube yourself and him, get on top, sit down on his cock; hold it if you wish. By being on top you control the penetration, both rate and depth. Once you are opened and used to being fucked it will get easier to do other positions.