Hi, Bi guy living in Oslo, Norway here.

I really get turned on by fantasies about being fucked in my ass by a big cock or dildo. But when guys have tried to fuck my ass at the sauna, I tighten up and its too painful - so I obviously need training. Sugestions? Methods?

The best advice I can give to you is start small. Get a dildo or vibrator that is about 2" in diameter. You may want to opt for one that is smooth for starters.

The next thing you need is a good lubricant like KY jelly. Before you try to insert it, make sure the dildo is well lubed (obviously).

The next thing you want to do is lube your ass with your finger. Put some KY on your finger and work it into your ass a bit. You have to remember that although the dildo is lubed, when you slide it in, alot of the lube is going to be wiped off by your asshole on the way in.

After you slowly slide the dildo into your ass, take note of your body position and adjust the way you are sitiing or bending so it goes in smoothly.

You may need to relube the dildo after you first slide it in.

I used this method to graduate from a small butplug to a failry large strap on.

Hope this helps.

Thanks for the advice and photos. I would really like my wife to fuck me with a strap on. Any tips about how to take the cock without tightening up?

hi simon
nc_bi_guy has given you some great advice there.. a little practice and you should be fine

invest in some poppers......you'll open up VERY nicely!!!!!

Keep the good advice cuming. Anyone in Oslo Norway want to help with the training?